7 STEPS TO TAKE TO AVOID QUARRELS FROM OUR PARENTS

There is a certain age in our life's as teenagers that we feel like exploding up, or just screaming and replying back some boiling anger in us due to the scolding we receive from our parent, well i must say it would better if one can just receive the canes rather than the scolding, it might either be from them or us, and we are not carefull enough, though it might not be our fault we might just end up worsening and changing the whole story if you are not open enough for them to know and understand you clearly...well here are some key steps one can take to solve such cases

•  Being christian we all have to pray to God for problem solving, don't think God does not know about young adult/ teenagers life, he was once a teen and he passed through every human problems both hatred, misunderstanding, jealousy & so on. so PRAY and talk to God as a friend and he will guide you through.
• Every tree has a root, so our problem must have it source, try to identify it, what causes it, when it normally happens, note all this cause they are very important, so as for it to help you in   resolving your quarrels 
• Try to dodge your bullet, think of any possible way to avoid them eg. your dad quarrels you when he sees you on earpiece, well look for a better one like a headphone with a wide circumference to avoid ear destruction. or you can suspend using the earpiece.
• Try to note where, when, and why the quarrel comes from, i believe we all have matured minds and we have consciousness, and always remember we will one day be parents so let take note, and see if we are right or wrong, if it from us let correct it, and it from our parent we should pray to God first, note to be rude but we should remember that our parent were never parent so don't expect them to be perfect.
• When we are have prepared to talk to them on certain issues you not okay with or you want a redress, we should take note of there mode,try to avoid any possible quarrel, and take note of your speech, tone, facial expression, and body movement.
• Take note before you take your appeal to them seek God guidance cause it works and will always, go with a clean mind
• Don't expect them to take it so cool from you so be cautious and try not to argue with them, pour out your mind and take note of your tone. don't shout. and be calm, explain to them, they might be misundaerstanding you, so try to explain every bit of your byte,,,

Make sure you end it with relaxed mind, and it might not just change in one day, you play your part and God will play his...making you to end up happily ever after with your parent

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